One must understand whether "what is love" can be a question which can be answered? Love cannot be a question. For, if it is a question then an answer should be there. If the answer is there, where is it? This question is ancient and an answer should have been found by now! If the answer has been found, the question would have disappeared.

But the question still remains, meaning the answer has not been found. If it has not been found as yet, then what is the certainty that it will be found? Maybe the mind can never find the answer! A single answer, which will please all minds, is not possible for each mind has its own ideas of love. Hence a universal answer is an illusion.

Individual answers are there for love and for this very reason there are arguments about love for each mind will contradict the answer of another mind. This contradiction is normal for each mind lives in a different point in time. Hence "what is love" is an illusionary question, which has no answer! - chandu

How To Tell If She Loves You

• If she blushes when you are around and her cheeks turn pink.
• The passion with which she looks at you gazing straight into your eyes, that means she is in love with you.
• If she blinks her eyes while talking to you, that means she is trying to give you some indication.
• Biting of lips has a meaning so guys be a good observer and notice what the girl is trying to convey through her body language.
• If she sits cross-legged facing you, then that is a sign that the girl likes you.
• If she plays with her hair, while looking at you, it has a meaning so try and understand what she wants to say to you.
• If the girl in question keeps touching your hands, shoulder etc, that means the girl wants to come closer to you.